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Thinking outside the box? Why are you in the box at all?

Everyone talks about thinking outside the box.
My questions is, “Why are you in ’the box’ in the first place?

You may find deeper insights here to generate your thinking cap:

·      First, whose box is it?
·      Who said it was a good idea?
·      Why is it important to be in a box?
·      What do you get from the structure or boundary the box offers?
o  Fear
o  Need for structure
o  Unsure about the future
o  Want to contain a situation
Antidotes:
Try on a new perspective and ask what your life and career look like without the box. Write it down and reflect on it at a later time.

What could be another metaphor you can use that has a positive framework around it?
For example, how about writing your own Instruction Manual for raising kids, managing your finances, or planning a big event in your life, like a wedding. 
The Payoff:
By being the author, you retain and enliven your power to be your best. When you’re in a box, it was someone else’s “bright” idea. Own your own™!
Let me know how it goes. Text to 480-510-7166 for five Coach Cubas Coins ($75 value)

Your Coach,
Michelle Cubas, CPCC, ACC
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Entrepreneur Shuffle

Here are several lessons learned along the journey of entrepreneurism:

  • People are limited by what they know. After 13 years in large corporations, I knew I could serve SOHO businesses and entrepreneurs more effectively as my own company. Positive Potentials LLC was born out of that burning desire.
  • Freedom is a personal value for me. It was freedom to make decisions, not free time! When driven by a passion for one’s work, it’s not work (Confucius said that), but the hours can take over one’s life. Time management is a huge challenge.
  • The biggest challenge in starting was to get the word out. Interestingly, people I previously worked with began to hire me because they enjoyed working with me. Marketing was the answer to creating sustainability.
  • I networked morning, noon, and night to create a presence and persona for Positive Potentials. I was able to receive feedback on how people perceived business coaching and where the gaps were in their businesses—I was curious and I did more listening than talking.

Certain truths became self-evident (smile):

Coaching shortens your learning curve—The one with the shortest learning curve LEADS!™

  • People start businesses but run them like a hobby.
  • My clients didn’t have time to go back to school to learn what they needed to know; business coaching filled many gaps for them in the business process from accounting to marketing.
  • Coaching provided a safe, non-judgmental space for quick learning. The information was useful and immediately applicable to the entrepreneur’s issues. I formulated a body of work called the EMBA Program that ultimately became a 12-week certification process for small business owners.
  • The entrepreneurs I coached were great at what they wanted to do. I called them my Widget Makers.

The flip side, though, was they hadn’t a clue how to run a business. With a fierce resistance to hiring expertise, once entrepreneurs connect value to coaching, they love it and welcome the shared experience.

See if you can relate or agree that these are the looming, persistent challenges I found. Please send me your feedback and comments:
• Self-promotion was hard for people.
•    They didn’t budget time and other resources wisely based on a plan; they became reactive to the situations.
•    They wanted to do everything themselves. They perceived it was too expensive to hire experts and found out the hard way how much time and money they wasted with a steep learning curve.
•    Time management was a huge challenge. There was little balance between personal and business.

I would be glad to post and share, with your permission, yours and others’ comments.

Happy Holidays!  -MC
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Reflection is tricky

“I can’t go back to yesterday – because I was a different person then. ” – Lewis Carroll
Saw this quote on Jennifer Nguyen’s Facebook page. It encapsulated what I wanted to say about reflection.

Think of the magnitude of this statement. We’re all racing into the future when we may just miss the “door opening in the moment,” which was just the future. Heady, I know.

In coaching and business, planning is touted as the tool of choice. But, I think we over plan, and don’t allow time or room for serendipity to come into our lives.
What do you think?

Just look at American kids how they are over scheduled with play dates, sports and activities. There’s no down time. And, we wonder why they’re fatigued!

True for the parents and caretakers also. We’re so afraid of missing something, chasing a phantom life that hardly appears. (There must be an app [pill] for that!)

What are your thoughts? Please post here, @coachcubas or Facebook
Business Influences MC

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