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Personal:
Business
is personal. Behavior (action) and attitude are the cornerstones
for building a significant life and career. The advantage my clients
gain is the measuring stick they make during our first two sessions
and how they carry it with them as a constant reminder of their
definition of success, not someone else's bright idea for them.
People
remember how they feel when they leave your presence, when they
hang up the phone, and when they pay your fees! I want them to know
their own value as well.
What
forged the steel?
Coach
I
trained women for nine years and discovered a curiosity: no matter
their economic status, they shared three things in common:
1.
Lack of sense of self
2.
No sense of the future
3.
Fear of loss (no matter the condition, they didn't want to disturb
the status quo.)
Without
training at the time, the condition resembled what we today call
depression.
I
was their wake up call. My enthusiasm was contagious and they began
to blossom in the energy of possibilities. I was as changed as they
were; my optimism served me well.
What
do I love about coaching?
•
My intensive training; I love being a student.
•
I have a high threshold of empathy and am sensitive toward others.
(You should see my EQ-I® chart!) I've crossed a few channels along
my journey.
•
Significance of the individual
•
Championing is acknowledgment that you matter
•
Encouraging is easy when you love people and find their divine spark.
•
Self-reliance is essential to a quality life. When we are self-referred
we have confidence and make better team members.
•
Lead from a position of strength, and love your undeveloped self.
It
keeps us humble and human.
The
one truth I've engraved on my Tree of Life is that Life is all for
the good. Come join me, and we'll inscribe letters in your tree.
Our
dear Osito "crossed the bridge" on June 11.
We
miss him.

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"Who
am I?”
This
is a core coaching question.
What
do The Dalai Lama and I have in common when asked what we do?
Answer:
We DO nothing. It is in the being with the client that makes the
difference.
My
executive and entrepreneurial coaching services and assessments
are available to support the personal interaction I establish with
my clients. The practice is influenced by my training and life's
experience I'd like to share with you.
Unique
Qualities
These
areas of my life shaped me and forged my core values and sensitivities:
My
children, Stacey and Adam, are my most influential teachers.
Bright
and ferociously active, my daughter exhibited learning disabilities
and slow motor coordination from 18 months old. She was bright as
the sun on so many issues. Yet, I had to engage her with eye contact
in order to “spill in” the conversation. To communicate with her,
I could never rely on remote vocal command. I had to look into her
beautiful, chocolate soda eyes and impart my message.
This
experience laid the foundation for my professional understanding
of what communication is—I learned the power of connection and engagement
from Stacey.
Adam
gave me generosity and feedback. He was eager to please and was
transparent, no agenda. Also, Adam had an eagle eye for detail and
the “big picture.”
Life
is so different when we view from behind our children's eyes. My
clients appreciate that from me today.
PS—Adam
is a creative and eagle-eyed professional videographer today and
works from his passion—It was already there. He shares my love of
music and both kids chastise me for not chasing my singing career.
Yet,
I have fond memories and realized my singing experience was training
for me to address auditoriums filled with people with the confidence
to know I had something to share with them, to pay the audience
homage for wanting to be with me. As a USO performer, I entertained
all branches of the armed forces from as far north as Greenland,
then Labrador, Newfoundland, Iceland and London, England. I absorbed
the power of relationships when a soldier sat in the first row tearing
up when I sang a ballad he thought was just for him.
Years
later, I was blessed with three more children; this time I “inherited”
them with my marriage to Ted. Once again, culture and humor shaped
our family ties. My “girls,” Lilette and Elaine (twins) and Christine,
have gifted me with unconditional love, not to mention the gorgeous
grandchildren!
Our
holiday celebrations rival reality TV! |